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Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Monday, April 16

{Defining Me}


When I was a little girl, I was often full of anxiety due to the constant turmoil of a home plagued with alcoholism, domestic violence and neglect.  Both of my parents were extremely young, self absorbed and ill-equipped to raise the three little girls that had been entrusted to them.  One of my earliest memories in childhood marked a turning point in my life and has shaped me in ways that I could never fully describe.

Miracle by Adam Jackson
One particular evening, I was struggling with thoughts of death and the question of being alone forever after death… (continue reading at Like A Bird, where I'm featured today as part of her Defining Me series).

Saturday, April 14

{4.14.12}


 We had a mini egg hunt at our home before breakfast.
I was so happy to find a chocolate cross to give Zion instead of bunny.
 In case you missed the haircut post…Zion had her first haircut!!  So much fun.
 I took Zion on a mommy-daughter date to the Central Park Zoo. 
Didn't take any pics with animals (impossible without a stroller)!
She loved her chicken strips and french fries.
Hubs gave me the afternoon off and I headed out for some retail therapy.
Decided to try some different looks on my skinnier body.
Should've nabbed the entire upper right outfit, but it would have blown my budget.
Instead left home with a pair of size 6 black jeans. 
(Smallest size I've worn since high school!)

{4.7.12}


 Decided to surprise Zion with a first visit to Chuck E. Cheese.
Most of the games were busted (seriously! ugh!) but we did get complimentary cotton candy.
These pictures were taken moments before a colossal toddler meltdown.
Note to self: cotton candy + toddler = bad idea.
 I went on a massive Ikea run on Friday.  
We (meaning my my husby really) hustled to put together our new dining table.  
Just in time for our traditional Passover dinner.
 We headed out to grab a few things downtown.  
We introduced Zion to Gray's Papaya on the Upper West Side.  
Can you say love at first bite?
The new additions:  Table & Chairs, Bed Frame & Linens, Toddler Bed & Linens!
We are loving having family meals at our table,  
enjoying sleeping above ground level,
but not so much transition from crib to big girl bed.
(A subject for an entirely different post!)

{3.31.12}


 A friend returned the exersaucer we'd loaned her,
and Zion decided that it was her new favorite toy again.
 My brother-in-law "T" came in for a visit,
we headed to Dallas BBQ for Dinner.
 On a beautiful day, we headed to meet the Hubs for lunch at Bryant Park,
and Zion rode the carousel.
I made perfect pan-grilled sirloin steaks with sautéed shrooms.
We had lots of yummy treats!

Monday, April 9

Zion's First Haircut & $100 Visa Giveaway {Find Great Deals on SquareSpot}

Thank you to SquareSpot for sponsoring this post! 
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It was finally time to take Zion in for her first hair cut.  We've put it off as much as possible because her hair has been relatively easy to handle and beautiful, crazy beautiful even.  But Easter morning confirmed the need:

Luckily, I had just signed up to try SquareSpot, an online market providing great savings and benefits for busy urban moms on a wide range of high quality goods and services in New York City.  They just so happened to have a fantastic deal for a cute little children's boutique in Brooklyn called Mini Max.

I am always looking for reasons to go to new places and experience new things in the city, and haven't been to Brooklyn in who knows how long, so I new this deal was perfect for me.  For $15 I was able to purchase a $20 gift certificate which would cover almost the entire cost of Zion's haircut.  Plus, I knew they also carried a small collection of fun eco-friendly toys and couldn't wait to have Zion pick something out on our special date.

This morning, we ventured out in the windy but warm weather…on our special date to Brooklyn for her haircut.  We enjoyed the long relaxing train ride with relatively few transfers.  Getting to Brooklyn never felt easier!  We arrived at our destination where Zion was warmly welcomed and given her choice of kid show and salon chair.  She chose a Diego video and then a yellow cab to sit in for her cut.  (Such a NYC girl already!)  I, of course, hovered and took pictures like the paparazzi, just like any first time mom would do!








There have been so many big milestones this week, all blatantly screaming at me that my little baby girl is a full on little girl now…no baby at all.  It really hasn't all hit me yet, but I am sure it is just a matter of time, in fact I can feel the "they grow up so fast" tears just waiting to be released like a torrential Spring rain.  


After Zion's haircut we took some time to pick out a couple of new toys.  First she gravitated to the tea party sets, then to the musical instruments, but in the end we took home some cute animal bath toys and a new farm puzzle.  Prices were incredibly reasonable and we both had a great time.  My expectations were far exceeded for both Mini Max, for being crazy awesome, and SquareSpot for connecting me to such a great establishment through a great offer!

Shortly after I purchased the Mini Max offer on SquareSpot, I had to go back and check out the additional deals and discounts on high quality, family-centric products and services that were being offered to make sure I didn't miss out!  They rotate new deals in and out on a weekly basis.  

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As you know I've been working hard at losing weight and getting in shape in my weekly Meltdown series, so I simply had to purchase the Moms of Steel offer for three Fitness "Bootcamp" Stroller workouts in Central Park for the price of one!  I haven't booked my dates yet, because I am still finishing up my current program, but after such a great experience with the first offer I tried, I am sure this is going to be top notch!

One of the things I loved learning about SquareSpot was that they test each product or service so everything on the site is hand picked!  They also offer a SquareCard program that gives you discounts off hundreds of New York City services and programs!  From what I have seen so far they are constantly adding more partners to their list.  The website is super easy to use and thankfully I don't have a ton of offer emails flooding my inbox.  If you are a New York City mama I totally recommend you check them out and sign-up for an account!

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Sunday, April 8

A Quick Update / Ramble

Just a simple note because I've been far too busy the past several days to prepare anything with beautiful sparkly edited photos or carefully scripted words…

 This weekend was fantastic, and wonderful and in so many ways the "turning of a page" in our lives. I want to expand on all of the details and really hope to, but for now I'm just tossing thoughts onto this page so as not to lose them.

 Friday a great friend and I went on a crazy Ikea run. Several hours later I was home beaming with joy as my husband put together our dining room table set. This table deserves a story in itself, so I will share that Thursday! Also purchased: a new bed frame and linens for us, as well as a toddler bed for Zion.

 We bought Zion a toddler bed because she started flinging herself out of her crib and had hurt herself once doing it. I wrestled with the idea of whether she was ready for it, but in the end we just decided to go for it. We didn't set it up until today, and although she skipped her nap, after only 12-15 curtain calls she was fast asleep in her bed. It will be interesting to see if she makes it all night without getting up.

 Saturday, my lovely friend Kristina and I went to get pedicures and have lunch…had such a great and encouraging time with her (as always). :)  We do church on Saturdays for now, because our church rents space from a church that doesn't have free time for us on Sundays currently.

 Sunday we had breakfast at home as a family after a mini egg hunt. Zion really got into the hunt this year, and was all about the treasures inside the eggs. We were blessed to attend a fabulous brunch with some of our church family and then finished our evening by hosting a good friend for dinner that I haven't seen in forever!

 It has been a packed, happy, joyous weekend. I'm exhausted as I write this and looking ahead at a crazy busy schedule over the next week. No slowing down any time soon.

 Hope you had a lovely weekend. :) Courtney

Wednesday, April 4

Wordless{ish} Wednesday




I forgot to publicly announce the winners of my April Ad space giveaway!  Here they are: Extra Large Ad Winner: Amy from Up Mommy Creekand my Large Ad Winners: Jill from I Know The Plans I Have For You, and Melanie from Happy Jax!!!  Please visit them and say congrats!! 

Tuesday, April 3

Leaving Winter Behind & Embracing Spring

I wanted to share this post with you here in case you missed it when I shared it on Imprintalish!  

As Winter comes to a close, I find myself reflecting on what I've learned in the season.  How has being limited by the weather and the elements shaped my use of time in this closing season?  What does Winter signify in life seasons?  Many things happen in the Winter months: holidays, the coming of a new year, cold, darkness, even the death and retreat of much that lives.  

With each season we are given the opportunity to reflect, reinvent and refresh according to our willingness to embrace each cycle of life.  Winter is a season of allowing what is dead to be covered over, and what is still living to be preserved in cold, quiet darkness.  Winter allows what we didn't like about our lives in the former year to be buried and forgotten.   Winter allows us to rest and reflect, to slow down and contemplate, to create warmth and light from within.


Just when we arrive to the point where we have had it with forced reflection, the coldness, the limitations of snow, ice and bone-chilling wind...signs of change emerge all around us.  The long nights begin to shorten, the sun shines more frequently and the birds begin to chirp outside our windows.  

In our hearts we ponder the next season of our lives and begin to implement the changes we've considered in our hibernation.  Some of us emerge from our Winter's rest roaring like a bear, ready to tackle the most grandiose of plans, others of us remain more reserved…cautiously surveying the climate and waiting for our chance to embark on new adventures.


In time, no matter how big or small our steps forward, we begin to see the hopes we've stored up begin to bloom.  As the buds return to the tree branches signaling the return of the leaves, so do we begin to take notice of the small beginnings of new directions in our lives.

Perhaps we've shed a few pounds and our clothes are fitting looser, or our readership has increased, or maybe our marital intimacy has begun to flourish from all those warmth-seeking Winter cuddles.  Maybe we've noticed our little ones as they've grown so quickly before our eyes, perhaps experiencing their own wonder at their very first Winter.


We find ourselves in a new place of hopefulness, getting out more frequently just to experience what had been hidden by the cold…new fresh life, new possibilities.

The last signs of Winter begin to be washed away as the cleansing rains of Spring fill the air.  Galoshes, umbrellas and wind-breaker jackets make their way to the front of our closets.  We begin to purge ourselves of all that held us back in the year before…devoting hours to cleaning, rearranging, reorganizing, and regrouping.   In the same way our minds and hearts are purged of past regrets and old patterns, creating space for new paths to be explored.


At last, we arrive in a place filled with beauty, serenity and calm.  We accept where we are, and look forward as greater things are now just on the horizon.  We press onward, making our plans for the year and feeling free to indulge in the bright shining sun.

Spring has come.  The season of rebirth captivates us by its elegant charm.  Flowers pop up beneath the remnants of leaves shed in the Fall.  Leaves open wide like outstretched hands.  Children once again fill the parks with laughter.   We walk lighter on our feet, have a new song in our hearts and smile at strangers as if to agree that Winter is gone at last.

Without being too hasty or unappreciative of all the wonders of Spring, a new thought arrives in our minds: Summer is now just a season away.



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Photographs are not mine, however; I received full permission to use them from their owners!

Saturday, March 31

Solitude

I originally shared this post on MameMusings! But today, I'm feeling the need to remind myself...

Solitude.

Why is does it seem so elusive for us mothers?

Perhaps, we make it more complicated than it has to be.

What exactly does solitude require of us?

Aloneness.

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Impossible.

My first reaction to the possibility of finding time alone.

[Insert list of reasons why here.]

Critical.

What can we possibly give if we are not taking the time to be refreshed?

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Possibility.

How can I give myself ten minutes of quiet each day?

If I start with five minutes is that okay?

Release.

I will not feel guilty for taking this time out for me.


Reflection.

My mind is finally free to be me.

Oh hello lovely thoughts, restful sighs and tensions eased.

Retreat.

Is this vacation for my soul?


Believe.

A content, rested mother (&wife) is one highly praised.

Today, take those five minutes…or even ten.

Set down your burdens.

Embrace.


Solitude.

I previously shared this post on MameMusings, but had to share this here as a reminder to take time out for quiet reflection.  

Wednesday, March 28

Girl Behind the Blog: What I Am Learning ♥ {A Vlog!}

Hey friends!  I have  a treat for you today!  My first video blog (vlog) ever!  I hope you will join me for a few minutes as I share what I have been learning lately…


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I was inspired by the two lovely ladies below!

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Go view the other Vlogs here or here!

I'm so glad you came by - make sure you enter my current giveaway for ad space in April!  XO

Tuesday, March 27

Home Management Made Simple! Featuring the Lovely {Imprintalish}

Hello again Baxtron{Life} readers!!! I'm pretty excited to be back today and sharing with you something that has made me a new woman! You see, the winter blues hit me hard in February and I have been slowly trying to motivate myself back to where I used to be. The beautiful weather we've been having these last few weeks was a tremendous help, but the main thing that has been keeping me on my toes is my new Home Management Binder that I put together. It has been a lifesaver, I'm not sure how I got anything done without it! Well, maybe that's the point...I didn't!
Meet my Home Management Binder!!!
I started with this beautiful textured turquoise binder (it came with the colorful tabs too!) from the Martha Stewart line, ya I splurged, and buying pretty things always makes me feel better! LOL! I also stocked up on some paper, ink for my printer, some clear page covers and a couple clear pocket dividers too...
...and a 3-hole punch! I can't believe I didn't own one of these-so fun!
The first tab is the most used. It's our go to calender with everything from a to-do list, to meal plans, to kids schedules. I saw this one over at A Bowl Full of Lemons and I find it works well for us right now, we don't really have crazy busy schedules....Once the kids get into school and activities though, I'm sure we'll need to upgrade to a bigger 'system', but right now this one is perfect!
The next tab is equally important to me! My Blogging To Do's!! I had a smaller notebook that I used to keep track of everything in, but as my blog grew, it just wasn't working for me anymore. Now, I can see everything at once, my main calender is on the left, which is where I keep track of when my posts are scheduled. All of my Sponsors are listed at the bottom and I can check them off as I get their Ads. I originally got this idea from The Letter 4, but came up with my own take on it, as I needed a bigger calender and smaller Sponsor section. On the right  side of my binder is where I keep track of everything else...Guest Posts, Giveaways, Ideas…

Oh and, just in case you like them...I made them available so you can download them for FREE!!!! :D

Blog Calender:
https://docs.google.com/open?id=0BxF4se67_X0XcGZQVEZ5eklSUi1BdEpmc215R0F4dw

Blog To Do List:
The next tab is where I keep track of all the daily cleaning that needs to be done and groceries that are needed. I love these lists that came from Simple Mom and what's really cool is that I covered each page with a clear page cover and now I use it as a dry erase board. So I can check off what I need and then wipe it away!!
The grocery one is here and the cleaning list is here.
And the last tab is where I inserted this handy dandy clear pocket system-for Coupons!!! I labeled a section for Kids, Grocery/Household and Beauty. This may be a little small for some of you Coupon Queens, but again, it's just perfect for me!

Well, that's it! That is how I stay on top of things and make sure my life runs as smoothly as it can with a husband and two very busy little boys! How do you keep organized? Do you have a special system for staying sane? I'd love to hear it...come on over to my blog, Imprintalish and say hi!
Lish