Wednesday, October 2

Mod Cloth's Mint Cute Dress 3 Ways

There are a few colors that I will always be drawn to when it comes to fashion.  Mint is one of them.  Today I'm sharing a beautiful mint dress from Mod Cloth - styled three different ways.
Classy Sophisticate



The first look features a floral blazer, wedge booties and classic rosette earrings.  This is the perfect look for meeting with clients, grabbing coffee with a friend or cruising the fashion district.
Rebel Chic



The next look is both edgy and feminine.  The trendy leather jacket is a key wardrobe piece this fall, along with the lace over nude flats.  This outfit is perfect for strolling the East Village or catching a live performance of your favorite Indie band.
Garden Charm


This final look is for the flirty romantic.  Floral pumps in this Fall's gorgeous blue paired with romantic jewelry and a soft lilac scarf make this perfect soiree attire.  Wear this outfit for a date night with your sweetheart or a sunset rooftop party.

What look would you love to wear?  Are you drawn to certain colors when you shop?
      
FYI - This post is not sponsored in any way.

Tuesday, October 1

Don't Call Me Beautiful

For most of my life
I have struggled
with my body image.

I have struggled
with measuring up
to what I believed was 
beautiful
often based on
 the culture of the moment.
I've always been 
insecure 
about my long nose,
rosy red cheeks
and
my long second toes.
No matter what I've weighed,
or even what size I've worn,
I've looked into the mirror
and often felt
disappointed.

Where does this devaluation come from?

Yes,
I can look at society,
Hollywood,
propaganda
and I can 
point the blame.

What would that really solve?

Nothing.

We have it all…
wrong.

Our culture tells us to first:
be skinnier,
be more fashionable,
be this skin color or that,
follow this trend,
buy this brand,
do this,
and definitely,
don't do that
then we will
feel good
about ourselves.

And we've believed them.

They tell us to
change first,
then we will love
our body.

But does that work?

Do you really spend time
taking care of the things in your life
that you don't
love?
Challenge yourself to
stop
thinking that
changing yourself
will result in
finally loving yourself.

Start
thinking that
loving yourself 
will give you
the motivation to
make positive changes.

When I look in the mirror,   
I still struggle to see 
an acceptable version of myself.  
 
In searching for the root cause 
of my inability to accept and enjoy where I am, 
I realized that I have to 
first love and accept my body
 to see myself 
the way I truly am.

***

Let us start choosing to 
love 
our bodies,
to value the gift and function
of each and every
part.

And in loving them 
how they are now,
let us watch as
almost
effortlessly,
we begin to take better care,
and see ourselves
how we've always wanted 
to be seen.

I'm starting with
my nose,
and ending with
my toes.
      

This is an abbreviated post from the BaxtronLife archive.  For the previous version click here.

Play Hard, Eat Healthy, Sleep Well:
3 Ways to Help Your Children in School & Life

If you really want to help your kids excel in school, it's relatively easy: Run with them, feed them well and pack them off to bed.

That's according to a couple studies reported in Reader's Digest that are gaining renewed attention in scientific communities. Exercise, good nutrition and proper sleep may be more important that homework, flash cards and praise for trying hard.

Play More Often

The simple truth is that healthy bodies lead to healthy brains, and healthy brains are better prepared to learn. Rather than adding to your stress and theirs about getting top grades or completing homework assignments, encourage your children to go outside and play. Sign the kids up for a sports team, implement a family run before dinner or go bicycling with them twice a week.

The authors of "The Winner's Brain," neuroscientist Mark Fenske and Harvard Medical School cognitive-behavioral psychologist Jeff Brown, contend that exercise stimulates blood flow to the brain and releases a brain protein which leads to growth of new brain cells. Brain scans show that the areas of the brain which deal with cognitive control and relational memory are larger in children with higher fitness levels.

Require after-school active playtime rather than after-school homework. As little as 90 minutes a week of exercise can lead to an improvement in math, reading and spelling, the American College of Sports Medicine found.

Eat Real Food

Take the children grocery shopping with you, and instead of reading labels, make a game of picking fresh vegetables. Plant a backyard garden, and let the kids pull weeds, water and pick the harvest. Insist that even young children help prepare dinner. When your older children opt for fresh fish and healthy snacks, you’ll deserve the high grades for teaching them well and keeping them fit.

Fresh vegetables, fresh fruits, whole grains, nuts, beneficial fats and lower levels of sugar fuel the body and the brain. "Eating properly can also boost your child’s ability to resist distraction, avoid emotional outbursts and otherwise regulate behavior," Fenske wrote in The Globe and Mail. You will also teach them respect for the producers of food, decrease your family’s reliance on processed foods and empty calories and increase family interaction.

Sleep Well, Relax

Insist on an "early to bed, early to rise" routine that will have them up and ready to go to school each morning. Kids may rebel at first, but enforcing strict bedtimes during the school week goes a long way toward improving grades. "Morning people” also consistently score higher on motivation scales.

Continue to encourage empathy, good citizenship and school spirit. We all want our children to be honest, respectful and aware of the feelings of others, and one good way to foster this is to encourage your children’s concern for teachers and classmates. Send get-well flowers or a homemade card if a teacher is out because of illness, and encourage them to stick up for the underdog at school.

Then, try to relax regarding their progress and their grades. Let them experience the joy of being children more than the stress of being students.